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31 July 2006
Howdy from Provincetown. The weather has been great (until the clouds came
this morning). I might be a little sunburnt (Herring Cove Beach). I've rented a bike, which makes all the difference in the
world. After the beach yesterday I rode the trails to the Race Point visitor center. I stopped by Far Land deli, where I saw
some cute guys on their bikes. I met them later at Tea. Then one thing led to another (landscape architect). I've had a lobster
roll (never again). I've had sandwiches from Relish, and bad ice cream at that old place in the center of town. I woke up
early this morning and rode my bike down the coast to Truro and back.
Time for breakfast.
27 July 2006
It is hard to believe, on this
cold and foggy morning, that tomorrow I will be on my way to Boston, and on the day after, Insha’Allah, I will be in Provincetown.
So much to do between now and
then. I have a pile to get through at work, and my personal to-do list is growing exponentially.
Now I must boogie, find my wallet
and keys, and move the car to avoid a $50 street-sweeping ticket.
The other oddity is that my pleasant date of Monday night
text-messaged me Tuesday morning to say that he had a great time. I e-mailed him back later that day (my phone is so
old that texting is impracticable), and he hasn't responded. Perhaps it's just that the young are easily distracted...
26 July 2006
Daddy's tired.
24 July 2006
Good news on the job front. And
I had an unexpectedly pleasant (and pleasing) date. We’ve known each other for six years, but never spent any time together.
I finally found a copy of Tales
of the City (the first paperback edition, the one with the map of San Francisco on the cover). I came across this:
How sweet it were, hearing the
downward stream,
. . .
Eating the Lotos day by day
To watch the crisping ripples
on the beach,
And tender curving lines of creamy
spray
-- Tennyson, The Lotos-Eaters
23 July 2006
Farmers’ market report:
green beans, corn, a hen, a tiny cabbage, yellow peaches, and dahlias.
After the market, I had a quick
workout and then went with a pal to Black Sands Beach. It was very hot in the City, but not too bad at the beach. We saw a
lot of pelicans and a number of wandering male naturists.
We both were in the mood for
caipirinhas, so we went back to my place, had refreshing showers (and gingerly removed our clothes to avoid the possibility
of spreading poison oak everywhere). Caipirinhnas are my favorite drink for hot weather. I made a quick dinner of a spatch-cocked
chicken, green beans (dressed in olive oil and sea salt), and coleslaw. We had pralines for dessert. It was one of those rare,
warm nights where we could sit with the doors and windows wide open. This lead to an unexpected (but chaste) sleepover.
I was a whirlwind of energy this
morning: vacuuming, cleaning, laundering, shopping, working out, and finishing off a long-delayed school project. Another
monkey off my back.
It's a new moon, so get started.
21 July 2006, 10 p.m.
Perfect summer dessert (serves
one): A ripe yellow peach, chilled. A glass. A splash of red wine (I used a 1999 Fronsac from Château Manieu). Slice
peach into chunks. Add wine. Wait a bit. Enjoy, mindful that summer comes but once a year.

21 July 2006, 8:10 a.m.
Heat wave! It might be 80 today.
Maybe not. I woke up early and heard the foghorns out on the Bay.
Work has been very busy. I’m
struggling to get my financial aid “package” in order. I think I
am trying to maintain my denial about how much I now owe.
Heigh ho, Heigh ho, it’s
off to work I go.
18 July 2006
Long day at work. Still no news
on whether I have a job during the school year. I am keeping my fingers crossed.
Prosopagnosia! A name for my condition, at last. I have a mild case of face blindness. It’s very awkward not to be able to recognize faces. I get people mixed up all the time, and if they change their look (or their hair, especially), I don’t
recognize them, even guys I’ve dated. I wonder if it counts as a disability for which reasonable accommodations have
to be made. I get confused in the movies all the time.
16 July 2006
I used my Earned-Income Tax Credit to buy a nice pair of cuff links.
I made it to El Rio this afternoon, as did just about all the other Gays. It was a beautiful day.

15 July 2006
Farmers’ market report:
tomatillos, green beans, tay berries (a cross between blackberries and raspberries), strawberries, lamb, eggs, assorted summer
squash, yellow peaches, and pink lilies.


14 July 2006
Happy Bastille Day! Allons
enfants de la patrie!
In other news, the NY Times article on out-of-the-way gay summer resorts had nary a mention of Guerneville and the Russian River. Perhaps that’s because the travel budget didn’t allow
in situ research, or because Nothing Happens East of the Mississippi (more likely).
In any case, it’s perhaps just as well, since Guerneville continues its de-gayification this summer. The Willows
continues to destroy what made it a pleasant place to "camp," and the new owners of the former Fife’s have decided to
appeal to the straights and close its bar/pool to day visitors. Good luck with
that. The article did not mention much about the tensions between the locals and
the gays. Perhaps other areas are more tolerant, but it’s hard to walk the length of Guerneville on River Road without
some young dude in a pick up truck yelling “faggit faggit” at you. How sad to be a closet case.
Weekend plans: an anniversary
luncheon with my sister and her lawfully wedded husband, the farmers’ market, naps, a Persian dinner, and more naps.
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11 July 2006
I just got tickets and hotel
reservations for our trip to Vancouver in August. We’ll be there for the fireworks competition and the gays on parade.
I can’t wait.
10 July 2006
Today I got my Earned Income
Tax Credit check: $113. Perhaps I will use it as Uncle Sam expects and buy myself a pair of cufflinks.
I stayed up late last night finishing
Gordon Merrick’s Perfect Freedom. A trashy gay novel with aspirations to Jamesian (or Fitzgeraldian) grandeur (or Maughamite storytelling).
Wealthy, dissolute American expatriates on the Riviera, but with plenty of gay sex scenes. Perfect for a summer evening.
9 July 2006
Farmers’ market report:
peaches (Red Haven, and so juicy I have to eat them over the sink), chard, beef, strawberries, avocado, rhubarb, and dahlias.
I’ve been in one of my
rare housecleaning modes. The kitchen is looking better. I was searching in the closet (my only closet) for a sweater or two
to donate when the shelving structure collapsed on me. What was a five-minute project became a 90-minute project, but the
closet is now tidy, the shelves will stay up barring an earthquake, and someone is now the owner of a big shopping bag full
of my old clothes. I left it on the sidewalk and it was gone in a half-hour.
El Rio was fun today. A little
outreach for the CAOP (Dominican Republic) was achieved. Just crazy or just drunk?
Probably both.
7 July 2006
Summer in San Francisco: after a brisk 20-minute walk home from the gym,
the first thing I did when I got in was turn on the heater. I'm putting an extra blanket on the bed tonight.
6 July 2006
Scenes from the weekend. Although you can't see it in the paysages
below, the horizon is the ocean.




4 July 2006
Well, it has been a long but
pleasant weekend. I’m finally relaxed. We decided to stay up in Sonoma one more night. This means we’ll have to
get up very early to drive down to the City to make it to work on time. I’m not cooking tonight. I’ve been working
this afternoon on stuff I brought with me. I can’t afford to take two days off without pay. Criminey. I don’t even want to think about it.
Farmers’ market report:
a fine fat hen from Hoffman, skirt steak, a rack of lamb, English (shelling) peas, green beans, a half-flat of peaches, a
yellow watermelon, basil, parsley, other herbs, squash of various sorts, eggplant, cherry and other small tomatoes, eggs,
red onions, fresh garlic, and so forth.
We sat in a ton of traffic coming
up here. I was still buzzing from my manic phase, so I got quite antsy. A nice outdoor shower chilled me out. I’ve
been cooking up a storm. Saturday night I made corn on the cob, a chicken and
green bean paella over an open fire (the only way), and a blueberry cobbler. As soon as I arrived, I cut up the chicken and
used the carcass to make a little broth. We went next door to inspect the construction site (a new house) and I made everyone
gather up scraps of wood (untreated) so that I could build my fire. I will have pictures of the paella later. It was good. It had the lovely little smoky flavor I was hoping for.
On Sunday I made a potato salad
with a shalloty dressing, grilled skirt steak with a lemony compound butter, tat
soi, and a meringue confection—something like a layered Pavlova or a stacked trifle (layers of Pavlova meringue, custard,
strawberries and blueberries and whipped cream).
On Monday I made a pesto lasagna
(I even rolled out the pasta dough by hand), and then grilled the rack of lamb and made a little ratatouille with tomato confit
and more green beans. I made a peach tart.
In between, I tanned, went for
a swim in the neighbor’s pool (which is bordered by a ten-foot-high wall of star jasmine. It smelled like heaven), had
a beer or two, read self-help books (Apartment Therapy and The Velvet Rage) and had an episode of micturation syncope (I fainted in the bathroom after peeing). I suppose
this last means that I’ll have visit my cute gay doctor.
1 July 2006
It’s a manic morning. I
woke up early, itching to leave for Sonoma. I packed, paid the bills, cleaned the kitchen, had breakfast, picked a bunch of
sweet peas from my window box, and decided to deal with the sour cherries. I
trimmed each stem to an elegant length and pricked each one once with a pin. A
little sugar, a big glug of vodka and it was done. I’ll shake it occasionally
over the next week until the sugar has dissolved. The vodka will gradually turn
a beautiful carnelian red. And I’ll have a little summery treat all winter long.
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