Cunégonde

November 2004
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30 November 2004

 

Last day of classes! I made it. Finals will be over in a few weeks. We covered intentional torts in 50 minutes today (!). I guess I’ll have to learn that on my own before I take the bar.

 

I’ve got a drippy cold. I can't really study in the library at school since it's not heated (budget cuts). 

 

So what was I reading this afternoon before my fingers got too numb to type? Here's a choice morsel:

An easement appurtenant to one parcel of land may not be extended by the owner of the dominant estate to other parcels owned by him, whether adjoining or distinct tracts to which the easement is not appurtenant.

But can an easement in gross be extended?

 

Mercury went retrograde today, so back-up your data.

27 November 2004

 

I’ve been studying like crazy, which means working my outlines. I just finished (more-or-less) 41 pages (13,500 words) on Civil Procedure. Still to go: Property, tomorrow.

 

Mostly food in this paragraph, so skip down if you don’t care. I had a nice Thanksgiving with my family. I made the cheese crackers in the December issue of Saveur. I can’t recommend them as they tasted exactly like Cheez-its, but with a delightful, friable texture and no chemical aftertaste. I followed the recipe and didn’t add the optional water; I think, however, the water would have helped to activate the gluten and make them puffy (as shown in the photo). I also didn’t roll out the dough: since I’m a professional, I spotted this waste of time and just rolled the dough into logs, chilled them in the freezer, and sliced off 1/16-inch disks and baked them. In any case, tensions were simmering all afternoon (politics, general crabbyness, the stars (my mother, father, and I are all Geminis)), so by the time my sisters got there I was dying for a drink. One Manhattan settled everyone right down. We had prosecco with hors d’œuvres, and then a lovely sherry from Montilla with the broth (chicken with pastine, with a little tomato in the background), and then a vinho verde (Broadbent, 2002) and Rex Hill pinot noir (2001, Willamette Valley) with the turkey & trimmings. Since we have two stuffings (one plain and traditional baked in the turkey and one with sausages, mushrooms, and olive baked outside the turkey), we never have mashed potatoes. I can’t quite imagine eating turkey and potatoes: all that white. After our heirloom turkey misadventure a few years ago, we went back to Diestel. I wanted something green besides the usual green beans (out of season anyhow), so I made a little spinach gratin (this sketch is for you: several bunches lightly wilted in butter, cooled, squeezed, and chopped; set it on top of a chanterelle and shallot duxelles, and moisten with bechamel. A drizzle of cream, then breadcrumbs and butter to finish. Hot oven for half-hour. Very nice, if not very Thanksgivingy. It went very well with the vinho verde.)

I stayed at my parents’ until Saturday morning, mostly hibernating in my room, studying.

 

Minor escapade to report involving at the same time the two outer poles of my types: A husky Latin (think: the guy who operates the streetsweeper in your neighborhood) and a lean, clean-cut, sandy-haired WASP. Your Cunégonde was the mayonnaise in that sandwich.

 

I only got through studying this evening with the help of George Shearing and João Gilberto. When I needed a break, I looked up the lyrics and sang along.

 

Corcovado

(Antonio Carlos Jobim)

 

Um cantinho, um violão,

Este amor, uma canção,

Pra fazer feliz a quem se ama  

Muita calma pra pensar,

E ter tempo pra sonhar  

Da janela, ve-se o Corcovado,

O Redentor, que lindo  

Quero a vida sempre assim,

Com você perto de mim,

Até o apagar da velha chama  

E eu que era triste,

Descrente desse mundo  

Ao encontrar você eu conheci

O que é a felicidade, meu amor 

 

 

24 November 2004

 

5:24 PM

I stopped by my local wine shop and stood in line behind a lawyer who works nearby. He was buying a case of Spanish wines to bring to Thanksgiving dinner. His total bill was roughly equivalent to a car payment ($312).  I’m going to keep the reward in mind as I slog through finals. One day, I'll be able to be that generous too.

 

9:05 AM

I’m thinking of changing my name to Pashmina, to reflect my Indian heritage.

 

Only seven more hours of class this semester!

 

My sister and I are negotiating the Thanksgiving wine line-up. So far: Prosecco, then a German reisling (even though they were part of the Coalition of the Unwilling), and then an American pinot noir (probably Oregon).

 

What was the holding of Kerr v. District Court, 426 US 394, anyhow?

22 November 2004

 

Candy!

 

C. brought me back some chocolates from Barcelona. The first is flavored with cinnamon (In Catalan, the label says: cacau, sucre, canyella i farina de blet). I haven’t tried it yet. The second is chocolate bonbons filled with a saffron cream (Bombons de trufa al safrà: cacau, sucre, mantega de cacau, llet en pols [powdered milk], nata [cream], sucre invertit, safrà, vainilla i lecitina). The box held nine of these little obelisks. I cut one open so that you could see the color. Chocolate and saffron: the two

bitter flavors play off each other fairly well; the candies were fortunately barely sweet. The combination grew on me, but I don’t think I want it again.

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Farmers’ market report: lamb, apples, young chard, and that’s it.

 

I’m tired and hungover today. I went to the Miss Trannyshack Pageant last night, not so much for the show but for the audience. Where are all of these cute guys the rest of the year? It almost didn’t seem like San Francisco. The handsomest man in San Francisco and I took the bus together to the Regency. A rep from Falcon tried to give us free copies of one of their DVDs.  He couldn’t understand (1) why we didn’t want the DVD (neither of us have TVs) and (2) why we weren’t sleeping together. The more he talked, the sadder he seemed: an underpaid fat kid working for a porn company whose products he couldn’t even give away.

 

I didn’t stay till the end — I met a little fox from LA and took him home (my height, wavy dark hair, great smile). I couldn’t sleep well with a stranger in my bed. He slept like a puppy, so I got out my Property outline (today: joint tenancies and tenancies by the entirety). Every time I woke up during the night I found he had his arm around me, or his leg over mine or his hand on my back. I could get used to that. Too bad he’s moving to Madrid next spring.

20 November 2004
 
Go Bears!
 
Fuck Stanford.
 
(Take off that red shirt!)

19 November 2004

 

I’ve been getting to know my local muse a little better. He’s been telling me about the girls he’s interested in (none of whom I’ve actually seen with my own eyes).  I’m not sure if these divulgences are simply a sign of increased friendship, or are a way of reminding me of his heterosexuality.  In either case, I’m trying not to overanalyze. He’s working out fine as a muse. As we say here, he satisfies both elements: I want to be him and I want to have him.

 

And a delicious little bit of gossip quoted directly from the stalker pages of Gawker:

 Freeman’s tuesday night the 16th of nov. the bush twins along with 2 massive secret service men tried to have dinner they were told by the maitre 'd that they were full and would be for the next 4 years upon hearing the entire restaurant cheered and did a round of shots it was amazing!!! [Ed: We're hearing that this is actually true.]”

17 November 2004

  • Starting to panic a little about my Torts class. It was all more-or-less OK until we got to Proximate Cause, whereupon I got lost. Since it’s only one of several elements in the prima facie negligence case (duty, breach, cause-in-fact, proximate cause, damages), I’m hoping I’ll be able to elide over or around  it.
  • I’m loving this warmish weather.
  • Shalimar tomorrow night with my former young gay lover. Goat curry!

15 November 2004

 

Two milestones today: I registered with the state bar and I paid off my car loan.

 

I went home for a family birthday dinner on Sunday. My nephew is very chatty. He looks right at you, speaks earnestly, and gestures appropriately, but it sounds like Hungarian. I can’t wait until he really talks. He'll fit right in. One cousin described a family get-together as 29 people, 28 of whom were talking at any given moment.

My uncle the chemist made us a couple batches of perfect Manhattans. He got engrossed (“water-soluble phenolic compounds in olives”!) in Harold McGee’s newly updated masterpiece, On Food and Cooking: the Science and Lore of the Kitchen. It’s a must for anyone interested in the why’s of cooking. I can't put it down.

 

I've been working out at the Gold's in the Castro. Note to the gays: there's a difference between leering and cruising. More staring is not going to make him more interested in you.

13 November 2004
 
 
And the farmers' market report: beef, quince and apples (again), escarole, duck sausage, dates, and pineapple guava (Feijoa sellowiana).
 
I went out last night with some of my classmates to hear a band. One of our classmates is in the band; he was good, but the band wasn't.  The horn player--mmm. Unfortunately, he started hitting on a lovely co-ed classmate, so I decided to go home and sulk.
 
I realized that I haven't had anyone to make out with in a long time. Sex, yes, plenty, but not good, satisfying kissing.
 

11 November 2004
 
Arafat is dead. Since folk wisdom has it that these things come in threes, who's next: Castro, Cheney, or the Pope?
 
On a different note, I reprint the following notice, which originally appeared in Harper's Magazine.
 
The group L’Anti Noël Avant L’Temps sent the following notice in November 2000 to merchants in Montreal whose stores were decorated for Christmas. Fourteen businesses that did not comply with the group's request were vandalized. Translated from the French by Jennifer Szalai.

Halloween has ended. Before Halloween it was autumn, and after Halloween autumn continues. Do you agree?

The leaves lie scattered on the soil, the atmosphere is calm and romantic; it is the dead season and many are rejoicing. Right? It is part of a whole season, a beautiful season, and one that does not officially end until the twenty-first of December. Are you listening?

Winter is far off, and Christmas does not exist outside of winter. Christmas = winter. Autumn = tranquility, peace of mind. You see what we want to say, no?

We are L'A.N.A.L.T. (L'Anti Noël Avant L'Temps)

We are a group of people who are saddened and frustrated by your ill breeding. We refuse to let you destroy autumn for a reason as pernicious and disgusting as making a little bit of money. Everybody knows that Christmas is coming. You're going to make the same kind of cash! So, if you please, everything has its time.

We demand that you take down all of your Christmas decorations without delay, and not put them back up until the first of December. . . .

N.B. Do not take this lightly. We are SERIOUS.

 

9 November 2004

 

To celebrate the end of my horrid legal writing class, I got a haircut.

 

Now I’ve got to go on a diet. To get through the writing of that damn memo, I excessively self-medicated with chocolate and corn chips.

7 November 2004

 

“If we want to have a hopeful and decent society, we ought to aim for the ideal, and the ideal is that marriage ought to be, and should be, a union of a man and a woman.” -- Karl "Jackass" Rove on Fox News, 11/7/04.

 

By this time next year, they’ll be smashing the windows of our community centers.

 

I’m trying to take heart by remembering that the civil rights movement had many setbacks before it more-or-less took hold. We’re in for a long fight.

6 November 2004

Our Leader is turning out to be even worse than I had feared. And the gays are now the official scapegoat of the Democrats too. And my future Canadian boyfriend turned down my marriage proposal. I suppose I should have waited until we actually met in person.

I've been holed up with the final draft(s) of my memo. I no longer know what grade to expect from it--I was so wrong last time that I don't even want to get my hopes up or, on the other hand, be too pessimistic.

I got my laptop back from IBM on Friday. Thank god for the warranty: I now have a new screen, a new system board, a new hard drive, and a new battery, and I haven't paid a penny. The only old parts left are the case and the keyboard. The only bad part is that I've lost everything that I hadn't backed up, and I have to re-install all the applications. It took all afternoon to apply Microsoft's 42 critical security patches. What I miss most are my bookmarks--all the odd sites I've collected over the years, plus all the "art" sites I've carefully unearthed in my dillegent research efforts.

Farmer's market report: collard greens, a pork shoulder roast, quince, apples, long Italian peppers, and local honey (unheated and unfiltered). I want to braise the pork shoulder with the quince tomorrow while I'm writing, and that reminds me that I need to season it before I go to bed.

I'm over the strange sore throat/cold/malaise I had last week. I was finally able to get back to the gym (shoulders) this evening, whereupon I received a very flattering compliment from a friend of a friend. It's too much to repeat here, but it reminded me of a conversation earlier in the week with A., who pointed out that my not having a boyfriend for the last four years is a choice, not an accident. I always have time for the gym. I always have time for reading (I finished Kate Christensen's Jeremy Thrane after the gym tonight (250 pages in four hours: Daddy's a fast reader)). I just don't have time to meet anyone, or so the story goes.

3 November 2004
 
We're in trouble now.
 
Isn't in curious how the  states and counties that have been driving American innovation all voted for Kerry, and those still wedded to the myths of the sky god voted for Our Leader?

2 November 2004
 
It's the eve of the revolution, dear readers. Go vote!
 
The world cannot have any hope for peace and security as long as Our Leader has any power.
 
Bush is the worst president in the history of the United States.
 
Don't let him be the last president of our republic.

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